Watching our kids struggle with anxiety can be tough. As parents and caregivers, we all want to see our children thrive, but sometimes the outside world presents challenges that feel overwhelming. Whether it’s school pressures, social changes, or the constant chatter of the internet, there’s a lot for young minds to process these days. So, what can we do to support our kids as they navigate anxiety?
First, it’s important to let children know their feelings are valid. A simple “It’s okay to feel worried” can open the door to honest conversations. Encouraging kids to talk about what’s on their minds—whether it’s a difficult test or anxiety about making friends—helps them feel less alone. Sometimes, just being heard can make all the difference.
It also helps to introduce simple, practical tools for managing worry. Taking a few deep breaths together, practicing mindfulness exercises, or coming up with a “worry plan” can be empowering for kids. Keeping routines predictable and communicating openly about changes can also provide much-needed stability.
At home, we try to model healthy ways of handling stress ourselves. Kids are quick to notice how adults cope. If they see us taking breaks, reaching out for support, and handling frustrations calmly, they’ll learn these skills too. And when things feel a bit too much, reminding ourselves (and our kids) that it’s okay to ask for help is crucial.
Above all, remember—none of us have all the answers. But by fostering a safe, supportive environment, we can walk alongside our children through anxious times. Sometimes, just knowing they’re not alone is the most powerful reassurance we can offer.